One Step Closer to a Cure. (A thank you.)

October 5th, 2009 at 7:28 am. Posted in Just Rachel, no. i'm really that crazy..

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As i’m sure many of you already know, in just under two weeks I am participating in the Susan G. Komen 3 Day.   As part of this event, I’ll walk 60 miles over the course of three days (That’s 20 MILES A DAY.  TWENTY.).  Also as a part of this amazing event, I have committed to raise $2,300 for the cause and I’m happy to say that yesterday, I hit my goal.

So many of you guys have supported me, donated money or sent an email of encouragement if you couldn’t donate… and that means everything to me.  I signed up for this journey back in April, and it’s changed me.  I’m a part of something bigger than myself, i’m a part of thousands of people fighting something.  I’m helping the world get one step closer to finding a cure.

It’s been a long four months full of fundraisers, late nights and lots and lots of training.  As someone who runs fairly regularly (you like how I threw that “fairly” in there, didn’t ya?), i’ll tell you right now… walking so SO MUCH DIFFERENT.  I just sort of figured that since I was in good shape and I ran a few times a week just walking 20 miles a day wouldn’t hurt me.  Ohhh, was I ever wrong.  There have been blisters and bandages, shoe changes and sock adjustments.  I’ve switched out waistpacks and waterbottles becuase they were too heavy or the strap was rubbing wrong.  My feet have scars all over the place from where my shoes rubbed the wrong way for just a little too long.  I’ve lost count of the miles i’ve walked.

I’ve baked cupcakes, served cocktails, made chocolate covered pretzels with pink white chocolate, i’ve hung fliers, sold merchandise and i’ve spent hours sitting outside of local stores with a donation jar with my best friend.  I’ve had people tell me that no, they won’t donate.   I’ve had people tell me that what I was doing was silly, that it was SO MUCH money to raise.  I’ve had people tell me that it’s “not normal” to walk 60 miles.  Yesterday while my girlfriend Stephanie and I were sitting outside of a local walmart with our table decked out in pink & filled with merchandise, chocolate pretzels in bags tied with pink ribbons and brownies with pink icing ribbons on them, some guy walked by us and then came back, looked at us and said “$1 for a freaking brownie?  I can understand like $.50 or something, but not $1.  You girls are ridiculous.”  Stephanie just looked at the guy as said “It’s for charity, sir.” and let me just tell you, homeboy was so lucky that it took me a second to realize what was going on, because I wouldn’t have been so nice.  Stephanie and I were really hurt by this, we had worked so hard and done so much… and for one person to come along and actually take the time out of his day to make us feel bad?  Ridiculous.  Most people would just drop $1 into our jar, so we thought it would be nice to give them a brownie or a few pretzels.  It worked out well, we raised over $350 in five hours.

In those same five hours though, we heard stories from local women that were survivors.  We had one woman come up to us, give us a hug and tell us that she was just diagnosed and she was amazed that two young people would actually care so much.  I’ve been in stores shopping and had on one of my team tshirts and had a woman come up to me with tears in her eyes and just want to give me a hug.  I’ve heard stories of men who have lost sisters, husbands who have lost wives,  daughters that have lost mothers, husbands who have lost wives.  I can recount each and every one of these stories and I can remember the faces of the people that told them to me.  You don’t hear stories like that and forget.  It dawned on me not too long ago.  This walk, it’s not all about finding a cure for breast cancer.  It’s about giving people hope.  It’s about letting people in the middle of a struggle know that someone out there cares.  That’s what makes this all so worth it.  The people that thank us, the people that tell us we’re doing an amazing thing.  It’s about coming together as a group, as a community and finding a cure for breast cancer so we don’t have to keep losing people we love.

I’m walking this year on team Birds for Boobs.  We are a team of women (EAGLES fans!  E-A-G-L-E-S, EAGLES!!! Ahem.), 39 members strong.  So far this year, we have raised over $60,000 for The 3 Day.  I’m pretty proud of us.  On the 16th of this month, i’ll be heading up to the City of Brotherly Love (Philadelphia!) to begin my 60 mile journey.  It’s going to be hard, there are times i’m going to want to quit… of this i’m sure.  But i’ll do it.  I’ll make it with the strength of all of the amazing people I have met so far who have shared their stories and let us know their fight.  I’m doing this for them.

If you are in the Philadelphia area, please consider coming out to cheer on the walkers!  There are cheering stations set up and we would LOVE to see you out there.  If you aren’t available this year, think about getting involved in 2010!  If not The 3 Day, then ANYTHING.  Get off your butt and make a difference in something.  You’d be surprised how amazing it feels to make a difference!

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There are 26 comments to this post.
Megan said... Oct 5, 2009 @ 7:54 am

Congrats on reaching your goal! It’s such a huge step toward finding a cure. Good luck with your walk!

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Kt said... Oct 5, 2009 @ 7:55 am

Congrats – I think that is so amazing you’ve been able to raise that much money alone (and as a team) and are committing to doing the 3-day walk. Good luck with the rest of training on during the 3 day walk!

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Kate said... Oct 5, 2009 @ 8:29 am

For someone who’s experienced cancer first hand (cervical cancer), and for someone who’s created her own organization to raise awareness for it, I have to say what you are doing to support breast cancer is truly amazing.

Believe me, you’re going to come across people who don’t care, who don’t want to donate and who think what you’re doing is absolutely absurd – but then you’re going to come across those few people who support you and the cause whole heartedly, and that, in and of itself, is worth more than the weight of gold.

Continue doing what you’re doing and be proud of it. Believe in it, because we need more people in this world who will believe in something and stand up for it.

Good luck at the walk!

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Lindsey said... Oct 5, 2009 @ 8:48 am

This is incredible! If I lived closer, I would certainly be there cheering you on, and would have definitely considered participating! Instead, on the 18th, I’m signing up to walk Bailey in “Paws for the Cure” to also raise money toward this amazing foundation!

Good luck!!!

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sarahdotcom said... Oct 5, 2009 @ 8:54 am

you are incredible, love. congrats on reaching your goal. you will have the time of your life, i’m sure of it.

Ev`Yan || apricot tea. said... Oct 5, 2009 @ 11:13 am

I am SO proud of you Rachel!!! <3.

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jenniferalaine said... Oct 5, 2009 @ 11:36 am

i’m so proud of you lady! i had no idea the 3-day required so much intense training, but i guess walking 20 miles isn’t easy!

i actually got to meet the guy who started this idea of the 3day way back when — his name is dan palotta and he started Palotta TeamWorks and they came up with the idea of it, saying that if you give people a challenge, they’ll rise to it and exceed expectations. and umm… yeah. you’ve definitely risen to the challenge!

i won’t be able to make it to philly to cheer for you in person, but make sure you tweet it and i’ll cheer for you virtually :)

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steph anne said... Oct 5, 2009 @ 12:27 pm

I’m glad to see more & more people partcipating! My aunt recently did the 3 day walk in Seattle & she said it was an amazing experience. I hope to do it next year!

I wish you nothing but the best & hope you have a wonderful experience to share with us when you’re done! :)

Cassie said... Oct 5, 2009 @ 1:19 pm

I think what you’re doing is amazing!

barbetti said... Oct 5, 2009 @ 4:45 pm

You should be so proud of yourself!

I lost a coworker to breast cancer about 2 months before Dublin was born and it was rough, seeing her two children every single day, attend the school where their mother used to work. It’s still hard.

I’m so proud of you! What an amazing year it’s been!

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katelin said... Oct 5, 2009 @ 5:13 pm

i am so proud of you (man i sound like a mom or something, haha), seriously amazing. and for a great cause! woo!

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Erin said... Oct 5, 2009 @ 6:33 pm

Rachel, I am so proud of you! I think it’s amazing that you are doing this.

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Emily said... Oct 5, 2009 @ 10:42 pm

That’s incredible that you’ve reached your goal, and $60,000! Both of my grandparents were diagnosed with breast cancer, and while they both did overcome it, it was tough watching each of them be in pain everyday.

I wish you the best of luck, you’ll pull through it with a new sense of self I’m sure :)

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Terra said... Oct 6, 2009 @ 5:55 am

That’s amazing! I’m so happy & proud of you!

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mandy said... Oct 6, 2009 @ 7:24 am

You should be incredibly proud of yourself, Rachel! I am proud of you and you are making a huge difference.

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Melissa said... Oct 6, 2009 @ 7:33 am

My mom has been in remission from breast cancer for a little over 11 years now, & we’ve done the walks each and every May. It means a lot to me to see that so. many. people. take time out of their busy lives to raise money for such a worthy cause. Thank you for doing everything that you did. You raised an absurd amount of money and spent an insane amount of time- & it made such a difference. :)

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Denise Kirby said... Oct 6, 2009 @ 12:38 pm

Thank you for walking. I am a survivor of 3 years. My Sister is walking in the Tampa walk. I am so proud each an everyone of you. Thanks again,

Meghan said... Oct 6, 2009 @ 12:41 pm

What you wrote is so true and couldn’t have been said any better. I too will be walking in the 3Day in Philadelphia this year (it will be my first 3Day). My mother passed away from Breast Cancer when I was 14 (I’m 25 now). So this is certainly a personal experience…but it’s an eye opening one as well. I can’t wait to see all the people who will come together to support such an amazing cause… and all the walkers and crew who will dedicate their bodies, tears and sweat to finding a cure. Thank you to you and your team… You girls are amazing (and awesome for being Eagles fans too! haha). Thank you and maybe we’ll run into each other on the journey!!! I was born in Jersey… so from one Jersey girl to another…Thank you and keep up the amazing work!! We will find a cure! :-)

Natalie said... Oct 6, 2009 @ 12:50 pm

GOodluck!! I’ll be walking in Philly this year too for my first time. I totally agree with your blog …..I can’t even start to explain the person i’ve become in this past year training, fundraising, etc. It’s such an incredible feeling :)

Steph said... Oct 6, 2009 @ 1:00 pm

Yay for meeting your goal! I’m doing the Avon Walk for breast cancer research next summer. It’s two days and I think it’s a marathon and a half.. I can’t imagine doing a full 60 miles! I’m really excited about the experience. I’m sure everything will be wonderful during those three days!

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Andrea said... Oct 6, 2009 @ 1:18 pm

Hi there! I am a fellow walker! I walked in MI in August and I do the walk for the same reasons you do. Mainly to be a part of something bigger than myself and to give others hope. Rock on for making such an awesome commitment. You will be blown away at the memories you will make, tears you will shed and laughs you will share. Good luck on your walk! You are amazing!

Sue Williams said... Oct 6, 2009 @ 1:26 pm

That is such a wonderful story. And now you are part of “The 3-Day Family”. When you get to this event what you have experienced so far,take that beautiful feeling and triple it because it is unbelievable what you are going to be a part of when the event is actually occurring. I have been involved with the 3 Day since 2005 and it has changed me for the rest of my life. Enjoy the ride!

Patty said... Oct 6, 2009 @ 1:58 pm

Congratulations on reaching your goal. I have been a part of this event since it began and I can tell you that it is an experience like no other. You will be tired but inspired! This year I walked in my 7th event. It never ceases to surprise and delight me…you will love every step. I thank you for all you are doing…be proud of yourself. Keep on walking! One month after the walk here, about two weeks ago, I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I know that the money you and I have helped raise is going to help in my fight so that next year I can join the army of pink shirts as a survivor! Walk on sister and have fun!

wishcake said... Oct 6, 2009 @ 8:39 pm

This is truly an amazing thing, and I have mad respect for you, Rachel. Maaaaad respect.

:)

I love that you have found a cause that means so much to you, and have truly put your heart and soul into doing all you can. I’m sure the walk is going to be a life-changer. Can’t wait to hear about it!

You are a gem.

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Rachael said... Oct 6, 2009 @ 8:49 pm

Congrats on reaching your goal! It’s such a great thing that you’re doing.

My aunt is a breast cancer survivor and I really wish I could’ve donated. {blast being a poor college student} I’m so proud of what you’ve done for the cause!

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Andy said... Oct 15, 2009 @ 11:00 am

I find it amazing that you’ve managed to balance work with making a home with having fun with giving back… I just wouldn’t be able to use my time so well!

Oh, and I’m OH SO PROUD OF YOU for :
1. DOing this.
2. Standing up when someone tells you it’s a mad thing!

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