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I’m seriously on edge right now, I have a fear that a nervous breakdown is just around the corner. Today sucked. I know that everything is going to be okay, but right now… i’d just prefer someone to hold me.

I took Stella pup to the vet this morning. We had no appointment but they said to bring her ASAP, so at 9am… off we went. I got there and the vet was a complete jerk. He came in, didn’t introduce himself to me, didn’t talk to or pet Stella and went right to sticking a thermometer up her bum. Like really!? You can’t talk to my puppy or introduce yourself before you go doing something like that? Ugh. So, I was irritated. I repeatedly asked him if he was sure she had Parvo, and he kept ignoring me. I sort of got nasty the third time and he finally told me he was confident that was what she had. Then, he basically told me she was going to die. He was all “Well, She could perk up and be fine or she could be dead tomorrow. “ EXCUSE ME!? Isn’t his job to tell me that he would do everything he could to make her better? I was there, in tears. I mean, I get that he might talk to Matt that way, but i’m a girl with a 7 week old puppy and he was being an asshole.

Long story short, he tried to convince me to leave her there overnight. I asked if anyone would be theer around the clock and he said no. So, I informed him that I would be okay leaving her there for the day but i’ll be back at 6:30 to pick up Stella. So, I’m waiting now. Calling the vet every hour for an update and just hoping that my baby is okay.

So I leave her at the vet to get some IV fluids, I get out to the parking lot and start my car. I was a total mess. I went to put my window down to get some wind in my face and SNAP! The drivers side window fell down and wouldn’t go up or down. I hit the button and NOTHING HAPPENED. Great. So, I called Matt and called my mom all hysterical and she rode with me to take it to the shop to just get it put on the track which should be like $40. No big deal.

I got a cal about half an hour later that it would be $400 to fix the window because I needed a new regulator and new clips for the window. CUE HYSTERICS. There is absolutely no way we could squeak out another $400 with a sick puppy still at the vet. Getting Stella better was my #1 priority, so we asked the mechanic if he could just get the window to go up and I’ll get it fixed when I can afford it. So, my window is now held up with DUCT TAPE. How ghetto, right?

Oh, and then I hit the fence at my parents house and dented the shit out of the passengers side of my car. HOW AWESOME.

I’m leaving in 15 minutes to go pick up Stella for the night and then Matt is going to take her back in the morning for another IV session and some other things, then thankfully… i’m done with that vet. Now all I need is my little girl to get better and to win the lottery.

What a horrible day for you. So sorry to hear about this mess that you’re going through. I’m thinking happy thoughts for you and little Miss Stella hoping that she gets better ASAP.

BOO on the vet with poor bedside manner. Next time you see him, walk in and stick your finger in his butt. When he looks at you funny, say “Hi, I’m Rachel. Nice to meet you.”

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Aw, the vet sounds like an insensitive ass! I’m so sorry you had a bad day. Sending hugs and positive thoughts to you guys and puppy Stella.

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Oh, my God. Honey. This sounds completely awful. I hope you get to spend the evening cuddled up with Matt and Stella and that everything turns out okay. I’m thinking about you.

Oh I’m sorry! I hate that your pup is sick and I hope she gets better! Having a financial burden placed on top of you too does not help. So sorry and hopefully things look up soon!!! Keep your chin up girlie!

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Rachel, I am so sorry… some days just plain suck. It can only get better from here, right?

Ugh how horrible. Having a great vet makes a huge difference. I hope Stella is ok! I will be sending lots of positive thoughts your way. Keep us posted.

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sorry to hear your day isn’t going well… sending positive thoughts so Stella gets better though! poor girl!

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That guy sounds like a complete asshole! I’m so sorry for your day & for your newfound stresses. Keeping you all in my thoughts & hoping Stella gets better asap! (and you win the lottery, obviously)

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aw rachel i’m so sorry, i hate days like that. hopefully stella will be 100% fine tomorrow and your day will be absolutely amazing and you’ll find $50 in your pocket or something

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OH NO! I’m so sorry to hear about your horrible day When it rains…it definitely pours. I’ll keep Stella in my thoughts…try to stay positive (unlike your nasty vet!).

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What a jerk! One of the only reasons I have continued going to my vet is because they are so personable, don’t make me feel like a loser for calling them whenever my dog does something funny, and they actually have a relationship with me AND her.

Sending positive thoughts to you, Stella and Matt. Let me know if I can do anything from down here. *hugs*

I can’t believe how insensitive the vet was! Hope you can feel the positive vibes I’m throwing at you right now. Hope tomorrow is much better.

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I’m so sorry. I hope your pup pulls through. I know I’ve been similarly frustrated when I’ve brought in my foster animals for care only to be treated rather callously by the veterinary staff. I lost a kitten to panleuk (it’s similar to parvo in puppies) and I was a crying mess in the waiting room while the vet techs just walked by ignoring me. As people who supposedly love animals, you think they could be a bit more sensitive to someone who is fearful for their beloved pet’s life. On the other hand, my boyfriend is a physician and he has explained to me that doctors (for both people and animals) sometimes come across as cold when really they’re just concentrating on their jobs and trying to remain detached- because if they didn’t, they would be able to function given the sadness they see in their jobs. It sucks, but sometimes it’s what makes them good doctors. In any case, I hope your pup is okay. -J

How did I not know you got a puppy?????? She will be OK!!!!!!!!

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Aw, sorry about your bad day! I guess bad things really do happen in threes! I’m sure Stella will be fine. Good Luck winning the lottery!

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::hugs::

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ew. HUGE hugs that SUCKS. MAJAH. BALLS.

But most importantly, it sounds like you need a new vet. Seriously, it is so important to have a vet you feel comfortable with, and Stella feels comfortable with.

And everything else will come with time. Hugs. xoxo

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I’m so sorry honey. My inlaw’s puppy got parvo, and while it was scary for a while, he’s quite fine now. I’m angry with your vet. And once this mess is over.. find a new vet! Vets should be a pleasant visit.

Thinking of you and Stella.. and keep us updated!

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Awww honey that’s horrible! I can’t imagine trying to hold it together through a day like that. I hope your baby gets better soon!

I am so sorry Stella is sick! I’m hoping everything’s okay!

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From one dog mom to another, I know how scary it can be. Sending you hugs, love & prayers. I know it’s not much, but if I can do anything, please let me know.

Love you!

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I’m so sorry you’ve had such a terrible few days. I am praying for Stella, and for you!!

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Duct tape is NOT ghetto.

It is the fixer of all things. It works miracles.

Hope you are feeling better.

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Thanks for being so excited for me even though you are worrying about your own lil baby girl! XOXO

I’ve been thinking about you guys … when I saw your tweet that Stella had parvo I seriously felt a chill … but you know what — I believe Stella is going to pull through this! You have so many people thinking of you and sending positive energy your way! We are all rooting for you guys! Keep us updated!

I’m so sorry that vet was such a jerkface. I can’t believe that. UGH! So unprofessional and just rude. Seriously so messed up. Good luck finding a new vet. (The vet I just took my cats to was somewhat like this, on a lesser level, he didn’t introduce himself or say hi really. Hmmm. I wonder if finding a new vet is hard? blah!)

Give Stella lots of kisses!

Oh, and I’m so sorry about your car window. Yikes, talk about worst day ever. Well, things can only get better from this point!

Wishing your baby girlie a speedy recovery! XOXO

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I am so sorry about Stella. Having a sick pet is HORRIBLE! I was beside myself when Kaya was in the hospital. I’m thinking of you both!

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Ugh–what a nasty day. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with so much right now. You and your sweet puppy are in my thoughts. Xoxo.

Oh gosh. That is a day that definitely calls for hugs and chocolate. Not fun.

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sigh. oh darling. i am so sorry. that IS an awful day. i have always figured vets would have a really good bedside manner, since, you know, they should LOVE ANIMALS. what a creep. i’m so sorry you had to deal with his bullshit and then the rest of the crap that got thrown at you that day. hang in there sweetest, and know that we are all here for you.

Awe, honey, I’m so sorry to hear you had such a horrible day. That vet is an asshole, has he ever heard of “bedside manner”? yuk. I hope you get the cuddles you need. <3

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Sorry to hear about your puppy…hopefully he pulls through. Don’t worry about the duct tape, function > aesthetics right now.

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Aw, hun! I’m so sorry! I hope your days get better, and I’m really praying for Stella! Chin up, girl! We all have our bad days, and the important thing is to be able to face them without giving up!

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OMG Rachel, I am so sorry! Everything will be fine in time, I am sure. *HUGS*

I’m sorry you had to go through all of that at once! I’m also so sorry to hear about Stella … she’s in a better place now, and at least she had you to love her in her final days.

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Oh wow hon..i’m so sorry about the Parvo thing.

Just so you know if the puppy actually has parvo you’re not going to be able to get another dog for a long ass time. It’s super hard to get rid of and extremely contagious.

Best of luck and I hope your pup makes it. I’ve worked with a lot of rescues and this happens all the time with puppy mill puppies and pet store puppies.

Let me know how it goes.

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Wow you just had a horrible day. I hope everything goes well with your puppy though, and pray she makes it through it because a animal in my mind is just like a child.

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i'm rachel. a twenty something jersey girl with one crazy life. matt is the boy that has my heart. it took going to hell & back again for me to figure that out. i feel most at home with my toes in the sand and the sun shining on my face. this is my story.

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