it feels good to be remembered.

January 29th, 2010 at 12:40 pm. Posted in Just Rachel.

Before I worked in real estate, way back when I was still a struggling college student, I was a teacher. In order to help pay off my loans quickly, I enrolled in a few extra classes and received my Child Development Associate Certification which allowed me to teach full time in a group preschool setting. My first teaching job was at a Montessori school in a little church. I worked there for three years, it was by far my most favorite job ever. I loved everything about the Montessori method, I adored the children and the parents were amazing. (My boss was a complete and total wench, but that’s a whole different story) Those kids, they were my life for three years. I worked there from 7am – 3pm every day and went to classes every night from 4:45 – 9:45pm. Hard? Of course, but that job made it all worth it.

I have this uncanny ability to remember faces and names, so i’ve run into a few of the kids i’ve taught here and there around town, but neither them or their parents recognized me or said anything. I never minded, it was seven years ago that I taught them and not everyone is a freak like me and can remember faces for almost a decade. But today, I had to run into the local Jr. High to drop something off. I was just about to walk back out the door when the secretary looked up and called my name. I turned around and she was like “I thought that was you, I’m Jack’s mom!” Whoa. I taught him when he was four and five and he’s now in the fifth grade. She remembered me. I told her I was surprised and her reply? “You shouldn’t be, you really made a difference in my little boy’s life.”

As I turned and walked out the door, tears were welling up in my eyes. It was all worth it for that one sentence.

There are 29 comments to this post.
Amy --- Just A Titch said... Jan 29, 2010 @ 12:43 pm

I love nothing more than when parents or students visit or remember me—those stories make me want to go to work every day.

Her said... Jan 29, 2010 @ 12:44 pm

How sweet! That’s always an incredible feeling, I’m sure.

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Darryl Coleman said... Jan 29, 2010 @ 12:45 pm

I found your site on Google and read a few of your other entires. Nice Stuff. I’m looking forward to reading more from you.

samdotcom said... Jan 29, 2010 @ 12:46 pm

I love this. And you. And women like Jack’s mom who take the time to say hello, seven years later.

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barbetti said... Jan 29, 2010 @ 12:46 pm

Awwww, how sweet! I, too, worked in a school for about five years, but switched schools after two years. I remember running into a kid I had worked with one-on-one, four years after the fact and he ran up to me and screamed “MISS COYNE!” It was pretty much the best feeling ever.

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san said... Jan 29, 2010 @ 12:52 pm

Oh, what a sweet story. I tutored all through College and I had the same experience that a lot of my students don’t remember me, but every now and again you’re being surprised. It’s heart-warming!

Mary said... Jan 29, 2010 @ 12:57 pm

I was a nanny and preschool teacher for years while in school…there is nothing better than a child who comes running up to hug you or a mother with a big smile and a thank you :)

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Caitlin said... Jan 29, 2010 @ 1:15 pm

That’s so sweet!! You must have really been amazing!! Love you!

shannon said... Jan 29, 2010 @ 1:16 pm

This made my heart happy! That must have felt so amazing.

Emily said... Jan 29, 2010 @ 1:33 pm

I love when that happens. That’s something you’ll remember for the rest of you life :)

I used to teach acting to 6 year olds and granted it’s not THAT important to a lot of people but there were moms who came up to me at the end of the school year and thanked me for bringing their kids out of their shell.

I’m glad you got that recognition :)

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Lacey Bean said... Jan 29, 2010 @ 1:37 pm

That is SO nice. I used to love it when kids I worked at a daycare with would recognize me.

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Carly said... Jan 29, 2010 @ 1:44 pm

How cool :)
you must have been an inspiring teacher

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Kelly L said... Jan 29, 2010 @ 2:28 pm

Aww, you’re making ME tear up. That is awesome.

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E.P. said... Jan 29, 2010 @ 2:28 pm

And tears are welled up in my eyes right now. I love when things like that happen. They’re SO uplifting.

And I know you made a huge difference in lots of kids lives, even if I’m not one of the parents. And that’s huge. (:

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flipflopsintherain said... Jan 29, 2010 @ 3:39 pm

That’s so sweet!!

Lisa said... Jan 29, 2010 @ 4:41 pm

Oh, wow! What a wonderful story. That must have been a stunning thing to hear, I can only imagine. Thank you for sharing this awesome moment!! <3

katelin said... Jan 29, 2010 @ 4:55 pm

aw that just makes my heart melt. i used to TA for kindergarten over the summer and i know what you mean about being remembered, it’s definitely a great feeling. and for a mom to say something like that is truly special.

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tiny house plans said... Jan 29, 2010 @ 7:05 pm

That was sweet! I really love to be remembered even in their busiest days.

Jessica said... Jan 29, 2010 @ 10:08 pm

Who would forget you?! <3

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Doniree said... Jan 30, 2010 @ 8:10 am

That’s incredible, lady! You are influential, even when you don’t realize it. Way to make a difference :)

Debbie said... Jan 31, 2010 @ 12:26 am

That is so awesome!Something like that would not only make my day, it would make my week.

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Emily Jane said... Jan 31, 2010 @ 3:53 pm

What an amazing moment :)

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OurLittleAshley said... Feb 1, 2010 @ 9:36 am

You make ME want to be a preschool teacher. And I was and hated it! :)

How cute you are. And so much patience. I admire you like WOAH.

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terra said... Feb 1, 2010 @ 10:34 am

Awwww! So sweet!

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confessions of a perfectionist said... Feb 1, 2010 @ 4:45 pm

This post really made me tear up. I worked with special needs kids in an elementary school right after I graduated from high school and that experience touched me in a way that nothing else has before. Reading this today made me realize how much I miss working with kids and knowing that at the end of the day just being with them made a difference in their lives. Maybe I have a new job search in the works…

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Suburban Sweetheart said... Feb 1, 2010 @ 8:57 pm

Wow. So nice to hear that!

Perhaps I should find a job that affects others… somehow.

But on another note, I’m a names-and-faces freak, too. Sometimes I pretend not to remember people just so I don’t weird them out.

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MinD said... Feb 2, 2010 @ 1:12 pm

What an amazing thing. It must feel great to know you made a difference.

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Meghan said... Feb 2, 2010 @ 11:48 pm

I just found your blog and am swooning over the honesty of your writing. What a great moment to have/share.

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amanda dawn said... Feb 11, 2010 @ 7:55 am

This must be an amazing feeling, as now being a mother, I realize the importance of people like you in their lives. On the contrary, I ran into a woman who used to teach my son. Long story short, we had to remove our kids from their school for $$$ reasons. She wouldn’t even say hi to my son. All I could think about was your post, and how really, it should be about the kids, not the “ordeals” with the parents. Kudos to you, it does indeed take a village to raise a child.
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